昨天，他们email了些"谢师宴"的照片给我看。
他们还提醒我，转眼之间，也已经有一年多没见到我了。。。
他们还说很想我呢! 哈哈!
再过多几天，就是他们的毕业典礼了。
我真是高兴，他们终于可以顺顺利利的毕业了!
看着他们有型，又美美的照片，我看得真开心!
他们叫我"妈打"，"mother"的声音，仿佛又在我的耳边响起了。。。
感谢上天让我有生之年跟这班儿女们结缘。
不知是不是人老了，特别容易有感触!
Mother在此祝福你们:"永永远远的身心愉快!"
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Saturday, October 27, 2007
缘起缘灭
有个同事要另谋高就了。
真的很不舍得他的离去。
很舍不得他，是因为工作了许久，很难得终于发现到，也遇到一个:
可以分享共同的理想，
可以分享经验，
可以畅谈人生，
可以毫无压力的向他请教，
也拥有跟自己一样的感想，志同道合的那么一个人。
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真的，真的很难得。。。
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也因为得知这世上，至少有一人跟我一样有共同的人生观，因而使我的决心更加的坚定不移!
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我知道他的离去将在别的地方造福更多更多的人。
虽然我很不舍，但一想到这一点，我也替他感到高兴，无不欢喜。
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有相聚的一天，一定也有分离的一天。
缘起缘灭。
认识了他以后，我就想: 虽然分离了，但大家一定也会再有相聚的一天。
在他离职之前，他帮我找到了另一个志同道合的朋友 --
缘起不灭。
Why Do I Blog? Tagged!
Thank you very much, Vincent Cho, christine, 笨鱼 for tagged me!
**Start Copy Here**
Do share with me, why do you blog?
We have a voice;
We must be heard;
Therefore we blog;
Now spread the word!
This meme is based on a recent post that was conducted asking the question “Why do you Blog?” and the rewrite “Why do you Blog? - Reworked.”
The purpose of this meme is to tell our tales by spreading the reasons that we blog to as many sites as possible.
We get to explain ourselves, direct traffic to our site and highlight our most important, most representative or most relevant post in an SEO favorable format. This will be a positive experience for everyone who wants to get involved. This will enable you to create a short advertisement for your site that will be spread across the blogesphere; a growing directory of blogs.This is an open meme.
You do not have to be tagged to join in.All you have to do is follow the rules.Please let me know when you have added your site by leaving a comment on “Complete List” with a link to your post. This will insure an up-to-date list, giving you even greater distribution. You then have the option of copying the growing list back to your site.
Rules:- Create an inventive post title- Write a brief introduction to the meme.
- Copy from “**Start Copy Here**” through “**End Copy Here**”
- Paste into your post
- At the end of the “*list*”, before “**End copy here**”,
please add your name, site name (with link),a very brief description (2-3 sentences) of why you blog,and your most important, most representative, or most relevant post (with link.)
- Tag at least 5 others to participate.
- Leave a comment and a link to your post on “Complete List”
*List*
“Why do maike blog?” The very first slide crossing my mind consists of these three points - Learned, Shared, and Gained. They form a cycle which I wanted to go through while I blog about my life here. I shared whatever I learned, experienced and gained, by the power of a little space. Besides, I have the opportunity to meet friends from every corner around, we colored each others life, and together we make the world flatter and flatter. Blogging enriched and made my life extraordinary.
Well，my name is lucky star，i started to blog since i know what is blog，i think it was about 1 year ago，actually i opened many blog at the net，quite stupid，but i started to become a blogger was because i wanted to share my life，my feeling to other，especially i am at oversea now，i would like to share my different life to my friends，but dont think i am showing off，well，thats all XD damn long =。=
迷迭香 is me, and I am 迷迭香 ~(http://meediexiang.blogspot.com/)Been exposed to blogging for more than a year now, I used to write and post in forums, things that I treasure, things that I came across and also my feelings. In the forum , sometimes you will get warning from the moderators… sometimes your tread maybe closed down for whatsoever reasons and in a very sad experience of mine the closing down of a forum… and with it all things that I wrote and treasure are gone and never be found again ~Therefore, after having the bad experiences at forums I decided to explore the possibility of having my own blog, a place where I can decide what I want to write and post, when I want to do it, how I want to do it and the best part of this is it is going to last as long as I want it !! so, that’s basically how I started blogging and why I blog ~ cheers
This is Vincent Cho. Paradise 自己·字迹 (http://vincentcho25.blogspot.com).The only reason why I opened this site for blogging is to share my happiness with others. Try to see thing from different perspective and brighter side. It's good to share life experience with others. You give something and you'll get something at the end. Life is so good if you know how to treasure, how to love and know how to share them all out of course.
笨鱼跃龙门William here, how i start blogging? There was a girl who teach me what is blog. Now why i blog? it could says blog teach me what is Sharing and Realize. Before i blog, i was keep everything in my heart. Now i know that, what is sharing and what is receiving. Hope all the keep bloggers share and receive together.
I am Christine.(简单人生- http://simplechristine.blogspot.com/). Actually i started blogging since last year,just moved here(blogspot) this year. Why do i blog? I have a habit of writing diary ,since i got know blog, so i started blogging as well. Blogging, just want express my feelings, happiness about what happened in my life. I assume that here is a dustbin, throw everything here..release everything...^-^
Anderson Loo安德森自由空间 (http://andersonloo.blogspot.com)写部落格最主要的目的当然是希望和大家分享我的一些生活点滴。我也会在这里对周围的事情发表一些看法。不过我不奢求所有人都能够接受我的看法。我写我的，信步信，听不听，随你们。无论如何，既然这边叫自由空间 ，任何人如果有和本人相反意见的，也欢迎自由的来这边发表或赐教。本人从不封杀异见。
Kai from It's time! 是时候了! I blog because I got to know it from the newspaper. Then, it was just for fun. Now, it's not just for fun. It's more toward sharing and hoping to send positive and happy messages around.
**End Copy Here**
**Start Copy Here**
Do share with me, why do you blog?
We have a voice;
We must be heard;
Therefore we blog;
Now spread the word!
This meme is based on a recent post that was conducted asking the question “Why do you Blog?” and the rewrite “Why do you Blog? - Reworked.”
The purpose of this meme is to tell our tales by spreading the reasons that we blog to as many sites as possible.
We get to explain ourselves, direct traffic to our site and highlight our most important, most representative or most relevant post in an SEO favorable format. This will be a positive experience for everyone who wants to get involved. This will enable you to create a short advertisement for your site that will be spread across the blogesphere; a growing directory of blogs.This is an open meme.
You do not have to be tagged to join in.All you have to do is follow the rules.Please let me know when you have added your site by leaving a comment on “Complete List” with a link to your post. This will insure an up-to-date list, giving you even greater distribution. You then have the option of copying the growing list back to your site.
Rules:- Create an inventive post title- Write a brief introduction to the meme.
- Copy from “**Start Copy Here**” through “**End Copy Here**”
- Paste into your post
- At the end of the “*list*”, before “**End copy here**”,
please add your name, site name (with link),a very brief description (2-3 sentences) of why you blog,and your most important, most representative, or most relevant post (with link.)
- Tag at least 5 others to participate.
- Leave a comment and a link to your post on “Complete List”
*List*
“Why do maike blog?” The very first slide crossing my mind consists of these three points - Learned, Shared, and Gained. They form a cycle which I wanted to go through while I blog about my life here. I shared whatever I learned, experienced and gained, by the power of a little space. Besides, I have the opportunity to meet friends from every corner around, we colored each others life, and together we make the world flatter and flatter. Blogging enriched and made my life extraordinary.
Well，my name is lucky star，i started to blog since i know what is blog，i think it was about 1 year ago，actually i opened many blog at the net，quite stupid，but i started to become a blogger was because i wanted to share my life，my feeling to other，especially i am at oversea now，i would like to share my different life to my friends，but dont think i am showing off，well，thats all XD damn long =。=
迷迭香 is me, and I am 迷迭香 ~(http://meediexiang.blogspot.com/)Been exposed to blogging for more than a year now, I used to write and post in forums, things that I treasure, things that I came across and also my feelings. In the forum , sometimes you will get warning from the moderators… sometimes your tread maybe closed down for whatsoever reasons and in a very sad experience of mine the closing down of a forum… and with it all things that I wrote and treasure are gone and never be found again ~Therefore, after having the bad experiences at forums I decided to explore the possibility of having my own blog, a place where I can decide what I want to write and post, when I want to do it, how I want to do it and the best part of this is it is going to last as long as I want it !! so, that’s basically how I started blogging and why I blog ~ cheers
This is Vincent Cho. Paradise 自己·字迹 (http://vincentcho25.blogspot.com).The only reason why I opened this site for blogging is to share my happiness with others. Try to see thing from different perspective and brighter side. It's good to share life experience with others. You give something and you'll get something at the end. Life is so good if you know how to treasure, how to love and know how to share them all out of course.
笨鱼跃龙门William here, how i start blogging? There was a girl who teach me what is blog. Now why i blog? it could says blog teach me what is Sharing and Realize. Before i blog, i was keep everything in my heart. Now i know that, what is sharing and what is receiving. Hope all the keep bloggers share and receive together.
I am Christine.(简单人生- http://simplechristine.blogspot.com/). Actually i started blogging since last year,just moved here(blogspot) this year. Why do i blog? I have a habit of writing diary ,since i got know blog, so i started blogging as well. Blogging, just want express my feelings, happiness about what happened in my life. I assume that here is a dustbin, throw everything here..release everything...^-^
Anderson Loo安德森自由空间 (http://andersonloo.blogspot.com)写部落格最主要的目的当然是希望和大家分享我的一些生活点滴。我也会在这里对周围的事情发表一些看法。不过我不奢求所有人都能够接受我的看法。我写我的，信步信，听不听，随你们。无论如何，既然这边叫自由空间 ，任何人如果有和本人相反意见的，也欢迎自由的来这边发表或赐教。本人从不封杀异见。
Kai from It's time! 是时候了! I blog because I got to know it from the newspaper. Then, it was just for fun. Now, it's not just for fun. It's more toward sharing and hoping to send positive and happy messages around.
**End Copy Here**
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
你拥有Organ Donor Card吗? (3)
Malaysian Society of Transplantation
If interested, please print the national organ donor registration form from
http://www.mst.org.my/donorreg.html#
This is the national organ donor registration form in hospital.
Eh, 我放在桌子上的national organ donor registration form去了哪里呢?
我记得我明明没把它收起来的啊!
难道真的有人拿去看了?
找了，也等了一整天，那张捐赠器官表格真的是被别人拿去了!
哇，我真的，真的好高兴!
那种欢喜的心情，真不知该怎么形容耶!
本以为要放弃的了，却柳暗花明又一春，
真是，真是，感恩啦!
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从前，都无法真正体会到在为他人付出的义工的苦心，欢喜。
现在的我，总算可以有一点点亲身的体会了。。。
被拒绝，不是坏事，也不是苦差。
逆增上缘。
哪怕被拒绝了十次，一百次，只要有那么一次有一个人答应帮忙，那就是继续迈向第二百次，第二千次，第二万次。。。的原动力了!
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我要学习不求回报，只求有得付出。
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没有大家给我这机会，我也无法体会到这份欢喜。
我，衷心地在这里感谢大家。
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当我在写这篇帖子时，可能有人因为还找不到合适的器官，因此在活黑暗中，痛苦中。更无奈的，可能已经离开人世了。。。
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vincent cho也写了有关于他朋友得了肾病的帖子:报喜不报忧
因为vincent cho有问我email national organ donor registration form给他。所以我便在此提供这微不足道的资料给他和大家一起分享。
tj0951 也帮忙找到了另一个下载表格的网址:
http://www.rayma.com.my/giftoflife/signup.html
http://www.rayma.com.my/giftoflife/signup.html
如果你也想为众人尽一分力的话，不妨告诉身边的人有关当器官捐赠者的管道。
谢谢大家!
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
你拥有Organ Donor Card吗?(2)
既然我已打算要传达这项讯息了，那我就开始问我身边的人了。。。
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我: 你有Organ Donor Card吗?
A: 没有耶!
我: 那天我去医院多拿了几张national organ donor registration form，你要吗?
A: 不好意思，我不要。我是个吸烟者。我想我全部的器官都不适合捐给他人。
我: 说得也是哦。不过眼角膜应该还可以吧! 哈哈! 不要紧啦。我只是顺便问问。
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我: 你有考虑过要当器官捐赠者吗? 我这里有好几张national organ donor registration form，你要看看吗?
B: 我能吗? 我都那么老了。
C: 不好意思。我没有兴趣。
我: 不好意思。我只是问问而以。谢谢。
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我把放在我的桌子上。希望会有人注意到它，拿来读一下也好嘛。
终于，有人看到了。
D: 你要当organ donor吗?
我: 我已经登记了。
D: 你人真好啊。
我: 哪里，哪里! 我只不过是想，mati了以后，这些器官对我都没有用了。那就捐给他人用吧。
(我在希望他说他也有想过，或是想读读那张表格。。。
很不意外的，没有。。。)
我以前当推销员时，被拒绝是常有的事。
伤心难过不会超过一秒的时间。到后来，完全没感觉了!
这次，我脸上虽毫无表情，但心里却非常的难过。
奇怪了，这可是没钱赚的宣传耶!
但我的心怎么就那么痛! 我怎么就会那么失望!
原本以为，经过郑慧仪换心脏的事件后，大家会对捐赠器官会有所思考。。。
就算没兴趣，至少也可不可以随便应酬我说: 我会拿回去读。我会考虑考虑。
当我冷静了下来，
我想:
毕竟，捐赠器官也是人生的一个重大的决定，决不可草率行事。
也许也还有很多人都对捐赠器官都还有许许多多不清楚的地方，也有疑问。
捐赠器官也是件很个人，很私人的事。
我必须尊重他人的决定，选择。
而不是给他们压力。
因为我也希望我父母，朋友都会尊重我的每项选择。
这下子，我总算可以把自己的情绪给安抚下来了。
没事了。
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我: 你有Organ Donor Card吗?
A: 没有耶!
我: 那天我去医院多拿了几张national organ donor registration form，你要吗?
A: 不好意思，我不要。我是个吸烟者。我想我全部的器官都不适合捐给他人。
我: 说得也是哦。不过眼角膜应该还可以吧! 哈哈! 不要紧啦。我只是顺便问问。
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我: 你有考虑过要当器官捐赠者吗? 我这里有好几张national organ donor registration form，你要看看吗?
B: 我能吗? 我都那么老了。
C: 不好意思。我没有兴趣。
我: 不好意思。我只是问问而以。谢谢。
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我把放在我的桌子上。希望会有人注意到它，拿来读一下也好嘛。
终于，有人看到了。
D: 你要当organ donor吗?
我: 我已经登记了。
D: 你人真好啊。
我: 哪里，哪里! 我只不过是想，mati了以后，这些器官对我都没有用了。那就捐给他人用吧。
(我在希望他说他也有想过，或是想读读那张表格。。。
很不意外的，没有。。。)
我以前当推销员时，被拒绝是常有的事。
伤心难过不会超过一秒的时间。到后来，完全没感觉了!
这次，我脸上虽毫无表情，但心里却非常的难过。
奇怪了，这可是没钱赚的宣传耶!
但我的心怎么就那么痛! 我怎么就会那么失望!
原本以为，经过郑慧仪换心脏的事件后，大家会对捐赠器官会有所思考。。。
就算没兴趣，至少也可不可以随便应酬我说: 我会拿回去读。我会考虑考虑。
当我冷静了下来，
我想:
毕竟，捐赠器官也是人生的一个重大的决定，决不可草率行事。
也许也还有很多人都对捐赠器官都还有许许多多不清楚的地方，也有疑问。
捐赠器官也是件很个人，很私人的事。
我必须尊重他人的决定，选择。
而不是给他们压力。
因为我也希望我父母，朋友都会尊重我的每项选择。
这下子，我总算可以把自己的情绪给安抚下来了。
没事了。
Monday, October 22, 2007
你拥有Organ Donor Card 吗?(1)
那天回婆婆家，遇到了堂妹。
谈啊，八卦啊，然后不知何故会谈起"捐赠器官"。
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堂妹: 你也登记做organ donor啦?
我: 是啊，我是在一个blood donation campaign那里登记的。一直以来，我也都有这个想法，但却不知道要怎么做, 要通过什么管道去登记。
(我在yes, I've registered as an organ donor已提起过了)
堂妹: 我知道可以从网上下载，但又很懒惰。拖拖拉拉到今天都还没登记成为organ donor耶!
我: 你去医院探望婆婆时, 没看到登记成为organ donor的表格吗?
堂妹: 有吗? 在哪里?
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我堂妹可能没注意到那些表格，因为平时我们探病后，就会直接离开，也甚少注意周围的通告或海报所提供的资讯。
于是，我决定了。
我要把这份讯息传达给我身边的人。
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ps: 我找不到有关上网下载 Malaysia Organ Donor Form的官方网站。有谁知道吗?
谈啊，八卦啊，然后不知何故会谈起"捐赠器官"。
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堂妹: 你也登记做organ donor啦?
我: 是啊，我是在一个blood donation campaign那里登记的。一直以来，我也都有这个想法，但却不知道要怎么做, 要通过什么管道去登记。
(我在yes, I've registered as an organ donor已提起过了)
堂妹: 我知道可以从网上下载，但又很懒惰。拖拖拉拉到今天都还没登记成为organ donor耶!
我: 你去医院探望婆婆时, 没看到登记成为organ donor的表格吗?
堂妹: 有吗? 在哪里?
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我堂妹可能没注意到那些表格，因为平时我们探病后，就会直接离开，也甚少注意周围的通告或海报所提供的资讯。
于是，我决定了。
我要把这份讯息传达给我身边的人。
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ps: 我找不到有关上网下载 Malaysia Organ Donor Form的官方网站。有谁知道吗?
Saturday, October 20, 2007
给小孩穿鞋子
以前，在幼儿园工作时，我是很心不甘，情不愿(也很抗拒)帮小孩穿鞋子。
因为，我觉得要在他们的父母面前，蹲(有时跪)下来帮小孩穿鞋子，真的好没有尊严可言!
有一天，当我再度帮小孩穿上鞋子时，我就在想:
以后，我也会有属于自己的小孩啊。
我也得跪下来帮我的小孩穿上鞋子啊!
当了妈妈，哪还会要谈什么尊严不尊严的呢!
当然是孩子最重要，最要紧啦!
把那些小孩们都当作是自己的孩子，
帮他们穿上鞋子时就不会再觉得委屈了。
拿着他们的小小可爱的脚，也开始觉得欢欢喜喜了。
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过了一段日子，我就会训练小孩自己穿鞋子了。
给了赞赏啦，鼓励啦，他们就一定会勤劳的学穿了。
但是，有时候我还是会帮他们穿，因为他们实在是穿得太慢了!
我真是看不过眼!
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后来，假期去别间幼儿园工作时，也抱着"是我的孩子的心态"，
每天都给小孩换掉充满了"黄金"的尿片! 哈哈!
因为，我觉得要在他们的父母面前，蹲(有时跪)下来帮小孩穿鞋子，真的好没有尊严可言!
有一天，当我再度帮小孩穿上鞋子时，我就在想:
以后，我也会有属于自己的小孩啊。
我也得跪下来帮我的小孩穿上鞋子啊!
当了妈妈，哪还会要谈什么尊严不尊严的呢!
当然是孩子最重要，最要紧啦!
把那些小孩们都当作是自己的孩子，
帮他们穿上鞋子时就不会再觉得委屈了。
拿着他们的小小可爱的脚，也开始觉得欢欢喜喜了。
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过了一段日子，我就会训练小孩自己穿鞋子了。
给了赞赏啦，鼓励啦，他们就一定会勤劳的学穿了。
但是，有时候我还是会帮他们穿，因为他们实在是穿得太慢了!
我真是看不过眼!
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后来，假期去别间幼儿园工作时，也抱着"是我的孩子的心态"，
每天都给小孩换掉充满了"黄金"的尿片! 哈哈!
Thursday, October 18, 2007
做义工，同时物色对象?
留言:"你参加义工是不是为了认识男孩子？"
他问得算是很客气了。
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我第一天去实习时，小孩子们便问我:"老师，你教我们有薪水拿的吗?
我回答:"当然，没有啦。我是自愿来教你们的。"
然后，有一个小孩子对我说:
"老师，我知道你不是真心要教我们的。你是要来这里找男朋友的!"
哇，我的天啊! 小孩子怎么会说得这么坦白啊?
我问小孩子: "你怎么会这么说呢?"
小孩子答:"是我mummy告诉我的!"
天啊，我又不认识他的mummy, 他mummy怎么会知道我在想什么，我的动机又是什么呢!
起初还会很介意，但过后就觉得好气又好笑了! 哈哈!
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起先，我以为当义工给人的印象是良好的。
想不到，原来还有etc...etc...的。
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如果还有人再问我这道问题，我是会这么回答啦:
善有善报嘛。。。
说不定会赐一段好的姻缘给我也说不定呢?
如果可以付出，又同时可以有意外收获，当义工，WHY NOT?!
如果当义工的同时，又可以找到志同道合的男朋友，那就当作是 ADDED BONUS 啦!
我都讲到这么白话文了，那你还不识相，快点找个意外惊喜给我啊?! 哈哈!
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哈哈哈!
这答案应该够坦率了吧?!
应该令有疑问的满意了吧?
我当义工是因为一个机缘。我之前的帖子"义工, 愿望"有提到我的动机吧。
那下次再写关于这机缘好了。
就算对我的动机有所疑问，我也无所谓。
还有，至于能否得到ADDED BONUS，我有空再与你们分享我的心得!
(真是罪过罪过! 又破戒了:frivolous talk!)
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
探病的联想
那天在医院，隔壁床的病人家属来探病。
他们的眼眶都红了，湿了。
我不敢望过去，只是在压抑着自己:
别想了，不然一定会哭的。
看到他人也心酸，想到自己没有完完全全的尽孝道，也内疚，也惭愧。
到时，我一定会哭得嘻哩哗啦的!
带欢乐与关怀就够了，别再给人添麻烦(悲哀)了!
最后，我没哭。
跟婆婆谈天也像平常一样叽叽喳喳的。
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义工的范围很广泛。
我也是刚加入不久，所以也还不完全的清楚啦。
但据我所知，有辅导啦，捐款啦，照顾有需要的人的日常生活，教育，医护，行政，宣传组(不知道讲得对不对)。
因为我还会怕，所以我不会选择医护。
我怕，是因为怕太心酸，太伤心。
在还未帮助他人之前，有可能就先落泪。
这时不是帮助他人，反而还要他人安慰我，那真的是越帮越忙了!
到了哪一天，我才会克服这一切呢?
除了"生老"，我希望也可以从容地面对"病死"。
他们的眼眶都红了，湿了。
我不敢望过去，只是在压抑着自己:
别想了，不然一定会哭的。
看到他人也心酸，想到自己没有完完全全的尽孝道，也内疚，也惭愧。
到时，我一定会哭得嘻哩哗啦的!
带欢乐与关怀就够了，别再给人添麻烦(悲哀)了!
最后，我没哭。
跟婆婆谈天也像平常一样叽叽喳喳的。
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义工的范围很广泛。
我也是刚加入不久，所以也还不完全的清楚啦。
但据我所知，有辅导啦，捐款啦，照顾有需要的人的日常生活，教育，医护，行政，宣传组(不知道讲得对不对)。
因为我还会怕，所以我不会选择医护。
我怕，是因为怕太心酸，太伤心。
在还未帮助他人之前，有可能就先落泪。
这时不是帮助他人，反而还要他人安慰我，那真的是越帮越忙了!
到了哪一天，我才会克服这一切呢?
除了"生老"，我希望也可以从容地面对"病死"。
Monday, October 15, 2007
看了还是会怕
婆婆住院了。
所以星期日那天便去探望婆婆了。
还好，婆婆已经渐渐痊愈了。
讲话也有力，也不会再喊冷了。
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经过其他病床时，也看到了因为糖尿病所引发的其他病症。
看到有些老的病人眼睁睁地看着天花板，眼神呆滞。
看到有些病人的手被包了起来。那只被包起来的手比另一只手还短许多了。
看到有些来探病的人双眼都红了。
还有一个病人，她才二十好几。
很明显地，她的一只眼好像已经是看不到了。
她很随和，跟我的婆婆很谈得来。她很开心地告诉我婆婆，她的男朋友也是在医院里认识的。
由于昨天是星期日，值班的护士比较少，所以也护士们也很忙。
她对我说: "请问你可以帮我到前面的柜子里拿一套衣服给我吗? 我双眼都看得不太清楚，怕拿错别人的衣服。谢谢你。"
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应该还有其他的，但我都不敢正眼的望过去。
不知道为什么，我就是害怕。
当时在我的脑海里，我只想快点的找我婆婆的病床。
明知道生老病死是定律。
读过了不少文章，都知道病是逃不掉的。
也曾提醒自己要照顾好自己的健康，要有面对病来磨的心理准备。
但至今，我看了那些病人仍然还是会怕。
所以星期日那天便去探望婆婆了。
还好，婆婆已经渐渐痊愈了。
讲话也有力，也不会再喊冷了。
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经过其他病床时，也看到了因为糖尿病所引发的其他病症。
看到有些老的病人眼睁睁地看着天花板，眼神呆滞。
看到有些病人的手被包了起来。那只被包起来的手比另一只手还短许多了。
看到有些来探病的人双眼都红了。
还有一个病人，她才二十好几。
很明显地，她的一只眼好像已经是看不到了。
她很随和，跟我的婆婆很谈得来。她很开心地告诉我婆婆，她的男朋友也是在医院里认识的。
由于昨天是星期日，值班的护士比较少，所以也护士们也很忙。
她对我说: "请问你可以帮我到前面的柜子里拿一套衣服给我吗? 我双眼都看得不太清楚，怕拿错别人的衣服。谢谢你。"
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应该还有其他的，但我都不敢正眼的望过去。
不知道为什么，我就是害怕。
当时在我的脑海里，我只想快点的找我婆婆的病床。
明知道生老病死是定律。
读过了不少文章，都知道病是逃不掉的。
也曾提醒自己要照顾好自己的健康，要有面对病来磨的心理准备。
但至今，我看了那些病人仍然还是会怕。
Saturday, October 13, 2007
义工，愿望。
那天给完意见后，我们这些新见习生都得填写一些资料。
其中的两项问题:
我参与义工的范围: 教育。
我的愿望:
播下许许多多善意的种子在小孩子们的心里。
希望有一天这些种子会开花结果。
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也许，会有很多种子会经过冬天，被冷冻，被遗忘了。
但我相信，一定会有种子会再度遇到春天，重新开始萌芽。
未来，就算只有一颗善意的种子在这些小孩心里萌芽，对我而言，已深感安慰了。
因为经过了十多年后，老师埋藏在我心里的那一颗善意的种子慢慢地开始萌芽了。
*我虽然开始参与义工的活动，但不代表我将来会是‘大好人’。
*我还是凡人(烦人)一个!
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
原来这样讲比较好听
很庆幸的，我参与了这项义工。
这项义工也是跟我的’老本行‘有关的---那就是教育啦!
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我应该已经参与了四个月左右吧。
经过了两个月的training，也经过了一个月多的observation(看前辈怎么教小孩)。
所以我现在也还是trainee.
那天，在义工场所举办了给feedback的session!
The principal gave some briefing in the beginning. It sounds something like this:
'I would like to hear all your suggestions and needs to make teaching better. Comments you given would give us an opportunity to correct it and make it better.'
Everyone gave their suggestions and comments because encouraged by the pricipal's briefing.
Everyone given their suggestions and now it's my turn to say: Errh, is it possible to give notice or paste notes on the notice board so that we, the trainees, know what is going on?"
(If I don't go to the office after my class finished, I wouldn't know that there's a feedback session today)
The principal said: Yes, just now a few trainees had also addressed the same matter. We will look into it and won't let the communication breakdown between the committee and trainees.
Then, one of the committee members said: Well, you all trainee should take the initiatives to ask the seniors what happen instead of waiting for others to inform you all what happened.'
The principal said: It's not about who's fault this is. Maybe the passing of information from committee to trainees might have been overlooked. Communication is about two way and not from single party only. We'll discuss it with other committee member and work out the best solution. Don't worry.
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Mmm, I wouldn't say that what the committee member said was wrong.
It's true. If I really wanted to take part in something, I should take the initiative myself!
Errh, but there's always a 'BUT'.
As volunteer trainee, I'm trying to learn but I need guidance. Sometimes I might need more help.
I'm not just here to help, I'm here to learn as well as to grow together.
And not everyone can accept suggestions or comments easily and willingly with an open heart.
So from this feedback session, what I've learned is:
这项义工也是跟我的’老本行‘有关的---那就是教育啦!
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我应该已经参与了四个月左右吧。
经过了两个月的training，也经过了一个月多的observation(看前辈怎么教小孩)。
所以我现在也还是trainee.
那天，在义工场所举办了给feedback的session!
The principal gave some briefing in the beginning. It sounds something like this:
'I would like to hear all your suggestions and needs to make teaching better. Comments you given would give us an opportunity to correct it and make it better.'
Everyone gave their suggestions and comments because encouraged by the pricipal's briefing.
Everyone given their suggestions and now it's my turn to say: Errh, is it possible to give notice or paste notes on the notice board so that we, the trainees, know what is going on?"
(If I don't go to the office after my class finished, I wouldn't know that there's a feedback session today)
The principal said: Yes, just now a few trainees had also addressed the same matter. We will look into it and won't let the communication breakdown between the committee and trainees.
Then, one of the committee members said: Well, you all trainee should take the initiatives to ask the seniors what happen instead of waiting for others to inform you all what happened.'
The principal said: It's not about who's fault this is. Maybe the passing of information from committee to trainees might have been overlooked. Communication is about two way and not from single party only. We'll discuss it with other committee member and work out the best solution. Don't worry.
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Mmm, I wouldn't say that what the committee member said was wrong.
It's true. If I really wanted to take part in something, I should take the initiative myself!
Errh, but there's always a 'BUT'.
As volunteer trainee, I'm trying to learn but I need guidance. Sometimes I might need more help.
I'm not just here to help, I'm here to learn as well as to grow together.
And not everyone can accept suggestions or comments easily and willingly with an open heart.
So from this feedback session, what I've learned is:
- Depend on the situation, when giving comments or suggestions, I must be careful and consider the different background of participants. So, my point of view won't hurt them or offend them.
- Try listen to more speech which uses more positive words instead of negative words. And emphasize on positive words. It is because positive words had greater impact than the negative one. And who doesn't love to hear nice words?!
I will try to apply this is my work as well!
Well, instead of helping, I've gain more, learn more, and grow a little bit!
Monday, October 08, 2007
第。。。篇!
以前老师要我们写一篇作文，或是周记，都得一摧再摧的，然后我们才肯把作文给交上去。
想不到现在的我，竟然会自动自发的写，而且还乐在其中呢!
以前是为了分数。
现在是为了抒发心情。
要是有机会让老师阅读到我此时此刻的 "作文"，
不知她会觉得好气，好笑，或是会吐血?
我看过有些部落格都有提起和记下这已是第100篇，第200篇。。。
那我也要凑上一脚!
Yeah!
这是我的第101篇了!
希望我也可以一直读到大家的
第。。。篇!
留在沙滩上的足迹会被风浪给吞噬掉。
那留在部落格里的，会否代表永恒呢?
Saturday, October 06, 2007
退休之中途，我会。。。
到底应该往哪里走呢?是不是有方程式来决定，退休以前所作的事，是对，抑或是错?
如果在你心中，的确有个方程式来计算对与错，那谁是那方程式的发现者呢?
我不会断定的说: 在职场上心狠手辣，绝对是错的!
倒是以前的我，觉得心狠手辣的人好酷哦! 他们这么做是对的! 那就是值得我学习的对象!
那退休以后的我呢?(我现在都还没退休，怎么会知道到时会怎么想啊!)
我会觉得我会对我退休以前所作的(指那些所谓负面的)---
有两种可能性:
(一) 觉得好无聊，因为我已拥有了我所想要的财富。而且，我也相信我不需耍花招，也可以获得成功!
(二)觉得好后悔，因为我的与世无争，而使得我还是得为往后的三餐继续烦恼着。。。
现在的我，只是会问我自己: 有必要吗(咩)?
理想与现实，好像很难一起并存!
或许，我应该这样说才对:
欲望，永无此尽。
Wednesday, October 03, 2007
退休以后，你会不会。。。
你觉得，你会为你在退休之前做所作过的:
那些所谓负面成功的格言而感到:
非常的理所当然，
非常的有成就感，
非常的自豪，
还是:
好无趣，
好无聊，
好无谓，
(也无味)
好没有意义，
好没有意思，
还是:
毫无感觉。
因为我做事从来不往后看的!
我爸爸教我的是:
做人总免不了要阿谀奉承，要使一些小伎俩，来为自己谋取利益。
爸爸也即将退休了。
所以现在他也还加了一句:
回头看看，你或许会觉得，以前所作过的都很没有意思。
所以你要自己选择要怎么走下去。
那些所谓负面成功的格言而感到:
非常的理所当然，
非常的有成就感，
非常的自豪，
还是:
好无趣，
好无聊，
好无谓，
(也无味)
好没有意义，
好没有意思，
还是:
毫无感觉。
因为我做事从来不往后看的!
我爸爸教我的是:
做人总免不了要阿谀奉承，要使一些小伎俩，来为自己谋取利益。
爸爸也即将退休了。
所以现在他也还加了一句:
回头看看，你或许会觉得，以前所作过的都很没有意思。
所以你要自己选择要怎么走下去。
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