Monday, June 11, 2007

快乐当单身(2)! Being single, happily(2)!

无论是当单身也好,有伴侣也好,最要紧的还是"心态"!


当然要羡慕,但不要过分的嫉妒
一定要积极的追求,但不要太过于强求!


天堂,还是地狱,都在于当下的心态

应该有听过这故事吧:
在地狱,有三个饿坏肚子的人,都各自在想尽办法用自己无法弯曲的手喂自己吃上一口饭。

在天堂,也有三个饿坏肚子的人,都各自在用自己无法弯曲的手喂对方吃上一口饭。


我,现在还是单身,也很羡慕身边有伴侣,有儿女的朋友们。
我,现在的生活也算蛮充实的(其实是自己想办法让它充实的),也没什么不快乐啦!
我,现在虽然学着当一个快乐的单身,但我不会放弃积极的寻找我未来伴侣的机会的!
哈哈哈!

No matter single, or not available, the most important is the "thought" itself.

We must feel envy, but don't be over jealous.
Must chase our dream aggressively, but not to be too forceful to achieve it.

Whether it's heaven, or it's hell, it depends on your thoughts at that moment.

I'm think most of us have heard of this story:

In hell, there were three hungry people, each of them were trying to feed themselves with their unbendable hand.

In heaven, there were also three hungry people, each of them were using their unbendable hand to feed each other.

I, who now is still single and available, also envy of my friends who have soulmate and children.
I, who now have quite a not so free life (actually, it was I who tried to make my life more busy), also not have anything to be upset about.
I, who now, although is trying to be a happy single, would not give up chances of finding my future partner, aggresively!
HAHAHA!

1 comment:

renee said...

Everybody has their right to be happy. no matter that person is good looking, bad looking, rich, poor, normal, handicapped and etc.
Of course, you also have the right to be happy.