昨晚，我读了证严法师的静思语1:
[戒定慧]
"。。。戒是生活行动的宗旨，用来教戒我们不做坏事；行为不发生差错，心就有定力，精神就会统一，如此就可产生智慧。"
我是个没有定力的人，常常举棋不定，而犯了一些可以避免的错误。事后，就会常常后悔，常常反省。但我却一而再，再而三的犯错。然后呢，就骂自己笨死了!
然而，这一切仍然还在循环中。
我知道什么是坏事(根据宗教，法律，习俗)。
但是在不同的时候，‘坏事’却有着不同的定义了。‘坏事’并不完全是真的那么‘坏’啊!
说谎言是好的吗?讲谎言是对的吗?
但，你一定有听过‘善意’的谎言吧? 你听了这个‘善意’的谎言后，还是会那么坚决的责怪那个人吗? 这又来到黑白灰的地带了吧!
我知道这是一种借口，一种给没定力，没智慧的人的一个出口，让他们可以继续逃避!
只是到最后，我知道我还是错的。
我想应该没有人姓‘戒’吧! 但我希望以后我的女儿的名字是。。。‘定慧’
定慧，
妈妈没资格要求你些什么。
妈妈也无法逼你接受妈妈的想法，因为妈妈的想法也不完全是对的!
妈妈只希望‘定慧’会是一个幸福快乐的人。
有些事情，只要我们下定决心把它给继续下去或就此打住，过后它就会雨过天晴了。从此以后，我们就知道要如何度过雨天了。
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Monday, April 23, 2007
第一封写给自己的信
。。。:
独立，需要付出很大的代价。思念家人的唠叨和关怀是无可避免的。所以，你必须忍耐。
还记得 ‘Beach Boy’吗? 那位老伯说:
“出去，就是为了要回去。”
既然你已经出来了，所以回去时，就要好好的珍惜你的家人，孝顺父母，知道吗?
记得，对你父母和弟弟而言，什么是他们最想得到的回报呢? 好成绩，能自立!
你要化思念为力量。努力向上，不偎辛苦。
你现在要做的是。。。尽你的本分读好书，把自己照顾好来，别让爸妈操心。
要知道，每样旅程都有尽头。
我，在尽头等着你。
努力吧! 永不放弃!
开心吧! 永不气馁!
快乐是自找的，不是任何人给你的。
自己上，
5/6/2002
独立，需要付出很大的代价。思念家人的唠叨和关怀是无可避免的。所以，你必须忍耐。
还记得 ‘Beach Boy’吗? 那位老伯说:
“出去，就是为了要回去。”
既然你已经出来了，所以回去时，就要好好的珍惜你的家人，孝顺父母，知道吗?
记得，对你父母和弟弟而言，什么是他们最想得到的回报呢? 好成绩，能自立!
你要化思念为力量。努力向上，不偎辛苦。
你现在要做的是。。。尽你的本分读好书，把自己照顾好来，别让爸妈操心。
要知道，每样旅程都有尽头。
我，在尽头等着你。
努力吧! 永不放弃!
开心吧! 永不气馁!
快乐是自找的，不是任何人给你的。
自己上，
5/6/2002
I made the third choice.我作了第三个选择
在我的面前，忽然之间，就只剩两样东西而已: 贪婪与愚蠢。
我要做个聪明的人，所以我决定了要‘贪’ 。
因为我要贪，所以我选择了。。。报应。
报应，当然不是我要的。
但是，我却忘了贪婪*的附加条件就是‘报应’ 。
幸好，报应它已找上我了。
报应它提醒了我，这就是我所贪图的附加后果。
因此，我开始反省了，开始勉强自己知足了。
但是，贪婪并没明确地说明报应会何时了结。。。
Suddenly, in front of me, there were only two things left: Greedy and Stupidity.
I want to be an intelligent person, so I’ve decided to be ‘greedy’.
Because I want to be greedy*, therefore I’ve chosen… ‘payback’.
Payback, of course, isn’t what I’ve wanted.
But I’ve forgotten that the terms & conditions apply for greedy is ‘payback’.
Luckily, payback had come to me.
Payback reminded me of these terms & conditions for choosing greedy, which what I’ve hungered for.
And since then, I started to re-think, started to force myself to be satisfied with what I’ve got now.
But, greedy never stated clearly when payback will be ended…
12/2/2007
我要做个聪明的人，所以我决定了要‘贪’ 。
因为我要贪，所以我选择了。。。报应。
报应，当然不是我要的。
但是，我却忘了贪婪*的附加条件就是‘报应’ 。
幸好，报应它已找上我了。
报应它提醒了我，这就是我所贪图的附加后果。
因此，我开始反省了，开始勉强自己知足了。
但是，贪婪并没明确地说明报应会何时了结。。。
Suddenly, in front of me, there were only two things left: Greedy and Stupidity.
I want to be an intelligent person, so I’ve decided to be ‘greedy’.
Because I want to be greedy*, therefore I’ve chosen… ‘payback’.
Payback, of course, isn’t what I’ve wanted.
But I’ve forgotten that the terms & conditions apply for greedy is ‘payback’.
Luckily, payback had come to me.
Payback reminded me of these terms & conditions for choosing greedy, which what I’ve hungered for.
And since then, I started to re-think, started to force myself to be satisfied with what I’ve got now.
But, greedy never stated clearly when payback will be ended…
12/2/2007
Saturday, April 21, 2007
My valuable experience during selling cars (2)
Summary of my experience:
3. I must make sure that I NOTE DOWN the date of any installment that should be paid in my schedule. And I must pay ON TIME for all the installment.
Sometimes, we tend to forget on which date we must pay for our installment. Sometimes, we are just to buzy to spend a little bit of time to pay. Sometimes, we think it's alright to pay late. I'm still paying, right? So, what's wrong? Well, there's nothing wrong about it until you want to apply for a new loan. If you are the boss, would you consider to approve one's loan if he/she doesn't pay on time for most of the time? Would you have the fear that one day he/she might not able to pay back for you if he/she don't plan their spending habit properly?
4. I must NOT be a GUARANTOR to X (anybody) unless I have prepare that sum of money in case if X does not have the ability to pay anymore or RUNAWAY!
Please refer to my previous post of the consequences of being a guarantor: "I want to buy...Could you please help me..."
3. I must make sure that I NOTE DOWN the date of any installment that should be paid in my schedule. And I must pay ON TIME for all the installment.
Sometimes, we tend to forget on which date we must pay for our installment. Sometimes, we are just to buzy to spend a little bit of time to pay. Sometimes, we think it's alright to pay late. I'm still paying, right? So, what's wrong? Well, there's nothing wrong about it until you want to apply for a new loan. If you are the boss, would you consider to approve one's loan if he/she doesn't pay on time for most of the time? Would you have the fear that one day he/she might not able to pay back for you if he/she don't plan their spending habit properly?
4. I must NOT be a GUARANTOR to X (anybody) unless I have prepare that sum of money in case if X does not have the ability to pay anymore or RUNAWAY!
Please refer to my previous post of the consequences of being a guarantor: "I want to buy...Could you please help me..."
Sunday, April 15, 2007
My valuable experience during selling cars (1)
I've always wanted to work in other field before starting to teach because I want to tell my students what's the real world is like. Although I have not see all of the real world, at least I know very little about it. Now, it seems like these experience are not only useful to them, it's also benefiting to me as well for my future.
Here are the summary of my experience:
1. Before I want to buy something, I'll make sure there will be an OFFICIAL RECEIPT issued to me when I pay.
If not, forget about buying that thing! Do you know why? Because if the thing you buy is not delivered to you, you have NO PROVE that you have paid for the thing you buy! Then, whom can you complaint to without any prove? Be alert, even the salesperson is your very own cousin or good friend!
2. I MUST BANK-IN my SALARY even my salary is paid with cash.
When you want to apply for loan, the bank will look at your income with prove such as payslip and bank statement (e.g: how much money in bank-in & withdraw from your account). If you are the officer, would you consider to approve one's loan if he/she can't show you any prove of income in black and white? Unless you have decided that you are not going to apply for any loan in the future for buying car or house or so on, PLEASE, PLEASE spend some time to bank-in your income for your future sake.
January 12, 2007
Here are the summary of my experience:
1. Before I want to buy something, I'll make sure there will be an OFFICIAL RECEIPT issued to me when I pay.
If not, forget about buying that thing! Do you know why? Because if the thing you buy is not delivered to you, you have NO PROVE that you have paid for the thing you buy! Then, whom can you complaint to without any prove? Be alert, even the salesperson is your very own cousin or good friend!
2. I MUST BANK-IN my SALARY even my salary is paid with cash.
When you want to apply for loan, the bank will look at your income with prove such as payslip and bank statement (e.g: how much money in bank-in & withdraw from your account). If you are the officer, would you consider to approve one's loan if he/she can't show you any prove of income in black and white? Unless you have decided that you are not going to apply for any loan in the future for buying car or house or so on, PLEASE, PLEASE spend some time to bank-in your income for your future sake.
January 12, 2007
I'm very proud & lucky for being a SALESGIRL (2)
Before I joined the sales profession, I never analysed what people had in their thoughts. So, many times, my friends knew that I'm "blur, blur all the time". Hahaha! And yes, it was true, I just let everything pass by without analysing.
When I'm selling, my senior taught me how to judge a person whether he is interested to buy or not just by observing his body languange when he just step into the showroom. Do you know why my senior taught me this technique? Yes, because I served all the customers as if they can buy without any judgement. Of course, there's nothing wrong with this attitude. It's just that he felt it like just wasting my time. And to my surprise, his experience of reading customer's body languange was correct for most of the time (there's still some exception of body languange, and which cost me to lost my sales for simply judging body languange)!
Besides analysing body language, I've started to analyse the response of customers to my introduction of the product. After some times, I knew what were the things that attract certain customers. So now, its quite easy to make effective introduction to attract customers. And from time to time, I learned how to sharpen my skills of analysing (but still not very sharp yet).
My father and brother recommend some books of selling to me. After reading them, I did apply some of the techniques and analysed after the sales. Those techniques really worked! If I dare to ask the right questions, I would find out what were the customers really needed. From there, I can close the sales more easily!
I always think that selling is an easy job. Selling is a job that only require you to talk to customers, have the luck to get the sales and that's all. Now, to me, selling is not simple anymore but yet it still can be very easy. It's not just solely depend on luck, but how you analyse and plan for it to success! Just selling or successful selling depends on how you work on it!
January 21, 2007
When I'm selling, my senior taught me how to judge a person whether he is interested to buy or not just by observing his body languange when he just step into the showroom. Do you know why my senior taught me this technique? Yes, because I served all the customers as if they can buy without any judgement. Of course, there's nothing wrong with this attitude. It's just that he felt it like just wasting my time. And to my surprise, his experience of reading customer's body languange was correct for most of the time (there's still some exception of body languange, and which cost me to lost my sales for simply judging body languange)!
Besides analysing body language, I've started to analyse the response of customers to my introduction of the product. After some times, I knew what were the things that attract certain customers. So now, its quite easy to make effective introduction to attract customers. And from time to time, I learned how to sharpen my skills of analysing (but still not very sharp yet).
My father and brother recommend some books of selling to me. After reading them, I did apply some of the techniques and analysed after the sales. Those techniques really worked! If I dare to ask the right questions, I would find out what were the customers really needed. From there, I can close the sales more easily!
I always think that selling is an easy job. Selling is a job that only require you to talk to customers, have the luck to get the sales and that's all. Now, to me, selling is not simple anymore but yet it still can be very easy. It's not just solely depend on luck, but how you analyse and plan for it to success! Just selling or successful selling depends on how you work on it!
January 21, 2007
I'm very proud & lucky for being a SALESGIRL (1)
For the past eight months, I'd been selling cars.
I started without any experience at all. Until today, I'd been the top sales person (not just only among salesgirl) for the past few months. Although the money I earned was not up to my expectation, the experiences will be my most valuable thing that I ever earned, ever!
Before I enter the sales profession, I was a shy person. I couldn't get along with people easily and I also felt so shy to talk to boys or man. When I'm selling cars, I must force myself to talk to all kind of people (no matter they are old or young, man or woman, boy or girl, or even kids). I've to listen and talk to them without feeling shy, afraid or without convidence. If not, will they buy cars from me? So, listening and conversation is the most important part of my investment.
I can't feel shy to listen and talk just because I don't know that person. I must take it easy and naturally so that my customers won't feel awkward, strange, or feel that I didn't respect them! And I tell myself, "I'm just giving the information needed by customers, and asking for the right questions so that I can help my customers and hopefully will get the sales. Because I'm not cheating or using tactics that I can't accept such as dressing sexily to attract my customers to buy. So, there is nothing to be shameful of! It is just a proper job that requires the sales person to communicate with the customers." That is why now I'm not shy of talking to strangers that I have to meet, be it man or woman. If I don't communicate, how would I ever get the information needed? I will not bother how the others think of me because of my job. By the way, it is a legal job!
Selling cars (& sanitary pads for just two months) had helped me to be a person who is much more mature in terms of communication. It also made me to stand firmly for my own thoughts. And here, I must thank my father and auntie who had given me the chance to experience the sales job. If not for them, I wouldn't have all these today! Thank you! And to all my friends who is doing sales now, I wish you all the best! And for those who will be joining sales job in the future, I will respect and support you!
January 20, 2007
I started without any experience at all. Until today, I'd been the top sales person (not just only among salesgirl) for the past few months. Although the money I earned was not up to my expectation, the experiences will be my most valuable thing that I ever earned, ever!
Before I enter the sales profession, I was a shy person. I couldn't get along with people easily and I also felt so shy to talk to boys or man. When I'm selling cars, I must force myself to talk to all kind of people (no matter they are old or young, man or woman, boy or girl, or even kids). I've to listen and talk to them without feeling shy, afraid or without convidence. If not, will they buy cars from me? So, listening and conversation is the most important part of my investment.
I can't feel shy to listen and talk just because I don't know that person. I must take it easy and naturally so that my customers won't feel awkward, strange, or feel that I didn't respect them! And I tell myself, "I'm just giving the information needed by customers, and asking for the right questions so that I can help my customers and hopefully will get the sales. Because I'm not cheating or using tactics that I can't accept such as dressing sexily to attract my customers to buy. So, there is nothing to be shameful of! It is just a proper job that requires the sales person to communicate with the customers." That is why now I'm not shy of talking to strangers that I have to meet, be it man or woman. If I don't communicate, how would I ever get the information needed? I will not bother how the others think of me because of my job. By the way, it is a legal job!
Selling cars (& sanitary pads for just two months) had helped me to be a person who is much more mature in terms of communication. It also made me to stand firmly for my own thoughts. And here, I must thank my father and auntie who had given me the chance to experience the sales job. If not for them, I wouldn't have all these today! Thank you! And to all my friends who is doing sales now, I wish you all the best! And for those who will be joining sales job in the future, I will respect and support you!
January 20, 2007
It's alright to be late!
Once, a few of them came in late. And I said,
"Maybe you think it's alright to be late a little bit, because it's none of my business. And yes, there's really nothing concern me whether you are late, or you are not here at all! I just have to give you some advice as it is my duty to do so. You will be forgiven and there's no impact to you."
And they laughed.
I said again,
"When you are working in the real world, you will hear no more nagging or advice. Because your boss will only say to you,"You are fired!". And that's it. And that's all."
"Would you blame your boss for fired you just because you were late?"
"If you are the boss, would you hire somebody who came to work late?"
You should know what they answered, right?
"Before I leave this room, I just want to tell you: Your business is none of my business, but it is YOUR BUSINESS to decide whether you want to GET the BUSINESS or NOT!"
"Maybe you think it's alright to be late a little bit, because it's none of my business. And yes, there's really nothing concern me whether you are late, or you are not here at all! I just have to give you some advice as it is my duty to do so. You will be forgiven and there's no impact to you."
And they laughed.
I said again,
"When you are working in the real world, you will hear no more nagging or advice. Because your boss will only say to you,"You are fired!". And that's it. And that's all."
"Would you blame your boss for fired you just because you were late?"
"If you are the boss, would you hire somebody who came to work late?"
You should know what they answered, right?
"Before I leave this room, I just want to tell you: Your business is none of my business, but it is YOUR BUSINESS to decide whether you want to GET the BUSINESS or NOT!"
Friday, January 26, 2007
I want to buy...Could you please help me...
"I want to buy XXX, but I need a "guarantor" in order to get my loan approved. Could you please help me to be my "guarantor"? I really need to have XXX in my life. Please help me."
What your answer will be? To help or not to help?
Are you familiar with the above question and demand from you by somebody close to you in your life?
Example 1*
A: Hello, I want to buy XXX. Am I qualified to get the loan?
B: Based on your information and details proven by your documents submitted, you should be qualified to get the loan. However, the approval is depend on the checking and evaluation of the computer system first. Please wait for the loan approval after the checking and evaluation.
After a few days,
A: Has my loan been approved?
B: Sorry. Your loan has been rejected.
A: Why? I have the required amount of income, and I didn't owe anybody any money!
B: It's true that you have fulfill the basic requirement for the income category. However, after the checking by computer system, it was found out that you are a guarantor to your family member. And, your family member had not repay his loan for more than 3 months. In another word, you are not qualified to apply any loan for the mean time.
A: It's not my fault. I was just trying to help my family member to get the loan. Alright, forget about that. Now, please tell me, how can I get my loan approved.
B: There are 2 ways. The first way is, ask your family member to pay back the loan. The second way is, you pay back your family member's loan. After the loan is fully paid back, then, your loan application will be considered (not straight away approved).
A: What? He owed more than ten thousands! He already can't pay anymore! And I don't have that much of money!
At this moment, A looked very sad, dissapointed and helpless...*
*The example 1 above does not refer to anybody in real life.
What would you do if you were A in the first place?
Would you be a guarantor to anybody?
Could you bear, handle, or overcome the possible outcomes of being a guarantor?
Please CONSIDER these questions SERIOUSLY, as I've seen many of these outcomes of being a guarantor!
Sunday, September 10, 2006
生日快乐，吗？
要是没人sms祝我生日快乐的话，我都不知道今天有什么特别呢！
生日不生日都是一样的过日子吧！已经没什么期待了。。。
祝我愿望成真，但是，我的愿望是什么呢？
啊，原来有好多愿望都已随着岁月模糊掉了。。。
今年，我的生日并不普通哦，
因为还有几个子女还特地去记得我的生日啦！！！
这对别人可能是很普通啦，对我却是一个难忘的生日。（这好像小学生在写作文吧）
这几个子女是我才实习教了四个月的学生。他们并不是那种乖乖仔或乖乖女，
但都很贴心！
不过，我在想，如果我今天还在教他们的话，他们还会这样对我吗？
无论如何，今年我算是赚到了啦！
虽然生日并不是一件什么大不了的节日，
但接到关心我的祝福时，我才知道生日是一个窝心的节日。
家人的祝福，让我感到家人的健在。
朋友的祝福，让我感到多年情感的延续。
子女的祝福，让我感到安慰。
人越老，彼此的关心，祝福，就显得越难得，越珍贵。
生日，当然快乐啦！
愿大家都一样。
生日不生日都是一样的过日子吧！已经没什么期待了。。。
祝我愿望成真，但是，我的愿望是什么呢？
啊，原来有好多愿望都已随着岁月模糊掉了。。。
今年，我的生日并不普通哦，
因为还有几个子女还特地去记得我的生日啦！！！
这对别人可能是很普通啦，对我却是一个难忘的生日。（这好像小学生在写作文吧）
这几个子女是我才实习教了四个月的学生。他们并不是那种乖乖仔或乖乖女，
但都很贴心！
不过，我在想，如果我今天还在教他们的话，他们还会这样对我吗？
无论如何，今年我算是赚到了啦！
虽然生日并不是一件什么大不了的节日，
但接到关心我的祝福时，我才知道生日是一个窝心的节日。
家人的祝福，让我感到家人的健在。
朋友的祝福，让我感到多年情感的延续。
子女的祝福，让我感到安慰。
人越老，彼此的关心，祝福，就显得越难得，越珍贵。
生日，当然快乐啦！
愿大家都一样。
Monday, August 21, 2006
忘了微笑
好无聊啊，翻翻报纸吧！
啊，是星云法师耶。
"给人信心，给人方便，给人欢喜"，
这句话我以前也读过啊。
只是，我渐渐的把它给遗忘了。
你不对我笑，那我为什么要对你笑呢？
久而久之， 我就不怎么笑了。
再次看了这翻话，
我才发现我已经好久没把欢喜带给别人了！
再笑一笑吧！
给人欢喜，也给自己欢喜。
啊，是星云法师耶。
"给人信心，给人方便，给人欢喜"，
这句话我以前也读过啊。
只是，我渐渐的把它给遗忘了。
你不对我笑，那我为什么要对你笑呢？
久而久之， 我就不怎么笑了。
再次看了这翻话，
我才发现我已经好久没把欢喜带给别人了！
再笑一笑吧！
给人欢喜，也给自己欢喜。
Monday, July 17, 2006
换了一个角度
在还没被逼教导中学生时，我只知道一定要从他们还小时，
就要教导他们走正确的路。
因为，这样做才是最有效的方法。
一旦他们长大了，怎么教导他们都是枉然的。
所以，当我知道一定要被派去中学实习时，我就觉得非常的懊恼。
后来，我想了一想，
如果我能够在半途中协助他们重新走回正确的路，
这岂不是更具有挑战性的一项任务吗？
于是，我就带着这种想法去教导那些中学生了。
虽然我还不知道这种想法管不管用，
我只知道我每天去教他们时，
我的心情是开朗的，充满希望的。
就要教导他们走正确的路。
因为，这样做才是最有效的方法。
一旦他们长大了，怎么教导他们都是枉然的。
所以，当我知道一定要被派去中学实习时，我就觉得非常的懊恼。
后来，我想了一想，
如果我能够在半途中协助他们重新走回正确的路，
这岂不是更具有挑战性的一项任务吗？
于是，我就带着这种想法去教导那些中学生了。
虽然我还不知道这种想法管不管用，
我只知道我每天去教他们时，
我的心情是开朗的，充满希望的。
Sunday, July 16, 2006
只带躯壳，不带灵魂
我每次都对我的朋友说该怎么教学生才不会生气，那就是:
"我只带我的躯壳，不带我的灵魂去教书，那就不会被学生给气死啦！"
这句话的代价就是，我将会感受到什么是"没有灵魂的灵魂工程师"了！
（一）〔这发生在我还没有说这句话时〕
我总喜欢教幼儿园小孩子，因为他们是那么的纯真。
小孩子容易吸收大人所灌输的观念。
所以我觉得从小就教他们走正确的路，是一件比较容易的事。
因此，我用尽了心来教导他们。生气便是在所难免的事了。
结果，我真的可以看到他们改变。
从霸道变礼让，从固执到合作。
在离别时，有个小女孩吻了我的脸颊，才跟我道别。
好舍不得啊！
（二） 〔这发生在我说这句话时〕
我已认为，小学生的思想已成形了，是很难改变了。
因此，我就没有把我的"心"带去教他们。教书的生活就真的过得很平淡。
结果，我看到如我所预料的，
在离别时，大家都如同陌路人。
而至于别的的老师呢， 那些小学生都哭了，因为舍不得关心他们的老师。
我很妒忌别的老师，为什么小学生对我那么冷淡。
（三）〔这发生在我说这句话过后〕
到了中学，我只知道不要多管闲事，我就可以平安无事了。
毕竟，中学生的思想比小学生更复杂，更难明白。
但经过了教小学的经验，我还是决定把一半的灵魂带去，但不抱任何希望。
结果，我得到了一点点的回报了.
"我只带我的躯壳，不带我的灵魂去教书，那就不会被学生给气死啦！"
这句话的代价就是，我将会感受到什么是"没有灵魂的灵魂工程师"了！
（一）〔这发生在我还没有说这句话时〕
我总喜欢教幼儿园小孩子，因为他们是那么的纯真。
小孩子容易吸收大人所灌输的观念。
所以我觉得从小就教他们走正确的路，是一件比较容易的事。
因此，我用尽了心来教导他们。生气便是在所难免的事了。
结果，我真的可以看到他们改变。
从霸道变礼让，从固执到合作。
在离别时，有个小女孩吻了我的脸颊，才跟我道别。
好舍不得啊！
（二） 〔这发生在我说这句话时〕
我已认为，小学生的思想已成形了，是很难改变了。
因此，我就没有把我的"心"带去教他们。教书的生活就真的过得很平淡。
结果，我看到如我所预料的，
在离别时，大家都如同陌路人。
而至于别的的老师呢， 那些小学生都哭了，因为舍不得关心他们的老师。
我很妒忌别的老师，为什么小学生对我那么冷淡。
（三）〔这发生在我说这句话过后〕
到了中学，我只知道不要多管闲事，我就可以平安无事了。
毕竟，中学生的思想比小学生更复杂，更难明白。
但经过了教小学的经验，我还是决定把一半的灵魂带去，但不抱任何希望。
结果，我得到了一点点的回报了.
Friday, July 14, 2006
想要逃避到什么时候呢?
起初想要当老师, 只是因为看到了私人界公司的不安定.
当然,除此之外,也是因为体会到了什么是空虚的生命时,
你才肯把金钱看得开一些些而已.
因为你知道,金钱并不能填补生命中的空虚.
你希望通过当老师,就可以满足这两项要求.
可是,这真能行得通吗?
你,只是一直在逃避着私人界所给于的压力和不安.
请问,一个只懂得逃避的老师,
可以给他的学生什么样的人生启示呢?
勇敢的去面对这些压力,把这些困难给克服掉吧!
只有这样,你,才可以抬起头来告诉别人:
"我并没有逃避现实中的不安,我只是选择了我真正要走的路."
切记,唯有胜任了目前所给你的工作,你才可以有资格说:
"我喜欢或不喜欢这份工作.",
或者,
"这份工作根本不适合我."
记得咯!
当然,除此之外,也是因为体会到了什么是空虚的生命时,
你才肯把金钱看得开一些些而已.
因为你知道,金钱并不能填补生命中的空虚.
你希望通过当老师,就可以满足这两项要求.
可是,这真能行得通吗?
你,只是一直在逃避着私人界所给于的压力和不安.
请问,一个只懂得逃避的老师,
可以给他的学生什么样的人生启示呢?
勇敢的去面对这些压力,把这些困难给克服掉吧!
只有这样,你,才可以抬起头来告诉别人:
"我并没有逃避现实中的不安,我只是选择了我真正要走的路."
切记,唯有胜任了目前所给你的工作,你才可以有资格说:
"我喜欢或不喜欢这份工作.",
或者,
"这份工作根本不适合我."
记得咯!
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
Tuesday, July 11, 2006
致我的学生们(一)
在还没遇见你们之前,我总以为教导中学生是一件令人非常头痛的事.
吵架,不做功课,不听话都是预料中的事.
但原来这也属于成长的过程之一.
在这成长的过程中,我也跟着你们一起成长.
你们不听话,是因为我讲得不够动听.
所以我也开始要反省啊!
虽然还没成功,但我一定不会放弃的!
所以说咯,
在这些令人生气事件的背后,也有值得令人反省的事.
吵架,不做功课,不听话都是预料中的事.
但原来这也属于成长的过程之一.
在这成长的过程中,我也跟着你们一起成长.
你们不听话,是因为我讲得不够动听.
所以我也开始要反省啊!
虽然还没成功,但我一定不会放弃的!
所以说咯,
在这些令人生气事件的背后,也有值得令人反省的事.
Monday, July 10, 2006
要 Want
现在,有很多人都喜欢改名字.
我不知道你现在叫什么名字. 无论如何, 你一定要知道,一定要清楚确定的知道你心里真正要的是什么.
你要的, 是满足于现状的生理或是心理的需求呢?
你要的, 是否可以让你在死前, 真正的毫无遗憾呢?
你要的, 是不是要别人要的呢?
你要的, 是否是你自己想要的, 真的想要的?
你要的, 是否是必要的呢?
要的与不要的, 你都要自己作主.
勇敢的去要吧!
不要怨时间, 不要怨别人!
但是你要切记哦,要宽心,要快乐,就要少计较,知足,放得下,宽容他人.
以前的你,此时此刻的你,未来的你,要什么呢?
Nowadays, many people like to change their names.
I don't know what is your name now. However, you must know, you must clearly and sure to know what your heart really wanted.
What you wanted, is it just to satisfied your current physically and mentally needs?
What you wanted, can it let you really leave this world without any regrets?
What you wanted, is it to get others wanted?
What you wanted, is it what you wanted, what you would really truly wanted?
What you wanted, is it necessary?
Want or don't want, you must decide yourself.
Go and get what you want!
Don't blame time! Don't blame others!
But bear in mind, to be happy, you must not be selfish, be satisfied with what you had, able to put it down, and forgive others.
The past of you, the current of you, and the future of you, what do you want?
我不知道你现在叫什么名字. 无论如何, 你一定要知道,一定要清楚确定的知道你心里真正要的是什么.
你要的, 是满足于现状的生理或是心理的需求呢?
你要的, 是否可以让你在死前, 真正的毫无遗憾呢?
你要的, 是不是要别人要的呢?
你要的, 是否是你自己想要的, 真的想要的?
你要的, 是否是必要的呢?
要的与不要的, 你都要自己作主.
勇敢的去要吧!
不要怨时间, 不要怨别人!
但是你要切记哦,要宽心,要快乐,就要少计较,知足,放得下,宽容他人.
以前的你,此时此刻的你,未来的你,要什么呢?
Nowadays, many people like to change their names.
I don't know what is your name now. However, you must know, you must clearly and sure to know what your heart really wanted.
What you wanted, is it just to satisfied your current physically and mentally needs?
What you wanted, can it let you really leave this world without any regrets?
What you wanted, is it to get others wanted?
What you wanted, is it what you wanted, what you would really truly wanted?
What you wanted, is it necessary?
Want or don't want, you must decide yourself.
Go and get what you want!
Don't blame time! Don't blame others!
But bear in mind, to be happy, you must not be selfish, be satisfied with what you had, able to put it down, and forgive others.
The past of you, the current of you, and the future of you, what do you want?
Thursday, July 06, 2006
Regrets
How many times have I regretted in my past?
Infinity.
For now and my future,
I shall hope that I won't have anymore regrets.
Infinity.
For now and my future,
I shall hope that I won't have anymore regrets.
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