tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-307371562024-02-20T19:08:50.971+08:00It's time!是时候了!Just want to let you know that it was you, who made my life more perfect!只想让你们知道,是你们让我的人生更完美!kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.comBlogger186125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-77486413399576991742013-04-17T21:22:00.002+08:002013-04-17T21:22:58.525+08:00It's coming back again<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">I introduced myself as someone who is ...</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">A person who tends to get lost in her life when she starts to think </span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">"what is the meaning of my life?"</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">Well, this thought is coming back to me again and again lately...</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">Sometimes, I'm really afraid of changes.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">So I tried to stop myself from asking.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">But the questions will still come and I need to make decision eventually...</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;"><br /></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; line-height: 18.1875px;">Hopefully, the timing is right and I have the courage and determination to do so.</span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-56840398159369826502013-02-06T22:34:00.001+08:002013-02-06T22:34:27.805+08:00HAPPY CNY 2013<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Another spring cleaning to welcome the new year.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Let's get rid of unwanted things, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">tidy up and, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">decorate!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A toast to spring cleaning for the house and the mind!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Happy Chinese New Year 2013 ^^ </span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-9497265077083393742012-12-26T22:27:00.003+08:002012-12-26T22:27:57.845+08:00Another year to come<div>
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Let's write down wishes or aspirations for another new year!</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><div>
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
Well, there's one thing that I'm truly reluctant to fill in for next year ......</span><div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;">.........AGE ........</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Happy New Year 2013!</span></div>
kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-38884754120764532332012-11-28T21:12:00.000+08:002012-11-28T21:12:15.239+08:00Gradually<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I wish I can achieve my goals as soon as possible.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, I just rush through and hopefully that I'll be lucky to achieve my goals.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It turns out that achieving goals really need patience...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Body starts to give signals when I forgotten about balanced life.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, now I've decided to achieve my goals gradually, be it work, academic, or spiritually.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm not going to compare myself with others anymore ... </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">just do it gradually ...</span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-81246799078640927292012-10-29T22:50:00.002+08:002012-10-29T22:50:58.690+08:00After so many years ...<span style="font-size: large;">"Your grandma is very good in cooking. Everything she cooks is delicious! " praise of my grandpa to my grandma while I was having dinner at their place.</span><div>
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-size: large;">My grandma smile and laugh when she told me that she became grandpa's "eyes" when his eyes were swollen during the dinner.</span><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span><div>
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Few years back, my grandpa wouldn't praise my grandma for anything.</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I only know my grandpa like to criticize my grandma and also from my mother's experience.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
<div>
<span style="font-size: large;">Lately, he told my mum and auntie that he doesn't know what to do if grandma would pass away before him.</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-size: large;">My grandpa finally realize that my grandma is all he has. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Now, grandpa and grandma are very happy couple at the age of 70++.</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
<div>
"We miss the most important thing because of the least important thing". I learned this from a talk.</div>
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If grandma hasn't tolerate with grandpa, I wonder what will happen ...</div>
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kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-38328875550719198972012-10-12T23:06:00.000+08:002012-10-12T23:06:01.558+08:00What makes me happy<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Eating dessert doesn't make me happy any more ...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Eating chocolate doesn't make me happy any more ...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Fulfilling my goal just make me happy for a moment ... and I even wonder am I truly happy at that moment ...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">What makes me truly happy ??? </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<br />kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-52469288219811514002012-09-26T00:11:00.000+08:002012-09-26T00:11:11.889+08:00Ain't the same anymore<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Time have passed by so fast.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I thought I'm having less desire and clinging for friendship, team work etc ...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But it turn out to be not what I thought ...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I still hope for happy return or response. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When things doesn't turn out to be what I would have expected, I felt quite disappointed. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Maybe it's time that I just have to admit that many feelings just ain't the same any more no matter how much I wish it would still be the same.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Maybe sometimes, there are things which I should learn to let it remain as memory.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This could be just the best gift for everyone ... including me.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-83508714517980771152012-09-21T21:50:00.002+08:002012-09-21T21:50:54.850+08:00Mission accomplished<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTMld6KZwB9RWfnTfM9FgzwCqnj1cH3P7yFAhZh9EQt-ZcPb4oporY4J8-gvNTUJubAfgw0k7aiieqPRDmZSk2ic7q11XhWDMrrpHVd0i7m7SdTMRhrmncU3ys6gw6k2RfX0p7/s1600/bian+bian.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTMld6KZwB9RWfnTfM9FgzwCqnj1cH3P7yFAhZh9EQt-ZcPb4oporY4J8-gvNTUJubAfgw0k7aiieqPRDmZSk2ic7q11XhWDMrrpHVd0i7m7SdTMRhrmncU3ys6gw6k2RfX0p7/s200/bian+bian.jpg" width="188" /></a></div>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Before I get there, I imagined that I would be very happy when I could finally give out the present.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the end, I just felt like a mission accomplished. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There was nothing.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When there is no label, there is no feeling of joy or sadness ...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Anyway, happy graduation day for all ^^ </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">May all your dreams come true very soon ^^</span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-73439425918912410932012-08-25T17:59:00.002+08:002012-08-25T17:59:51.028+08:00被遗忘的梦想自从一切都已经安定下来,<br />
每天几乎是一样的.<br />
<br />
最近, <span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">因</span>经济不景气,<br />
电视节目播放<span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">关于</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="white-space: nowrap;">鼓励有</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">梦想, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="white-space: nowrap;">勇敢</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">实现</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap;">梦想</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="white-space: nowrap;">的故事.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="white-space: nowrap;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="white-space: nowrap;">我的梦想是什么 ...</span></span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-8915840511894482662012-07-10T22:01:00.001+08:002012-07-10T22:01:22.616+08:00It's just thereWhat is not under my control, could not be mine ...<br />
<br />
However, I just feel so frustrated and upset!<br />
<br />
I guess I still haven't walk out from the trauma of accident last year ...<br />
though I just have very minor muscle pain only after being hit ...<br />
<br />
Whenever I see traffic light, I'm so scare that it will suddenly turn to red...<br />
Do I have enough time to stop ???<br />
Will I be hit by another car?<br />
Will I hit other car?<br />
<br />
Those thoughts just keep coming back from time to time though I know it just delusion ...<br />
<br />
Once, I saw a car knock on a lady at the zebra line because the driver did not wait for green light...<br />
<br />
I started to be extra careful whenever I see the traffic light for pedestrian ...<br />
<br />
If I have passengers with me, I feel extra pressure because I'm in charge of their safety ...<br />
<br />
I still have to drive although I still carry this fear with me...<br />
<br />
Now I understand why a colleague of mine is unable to drive after the trauma of hitting a person ...<br />
<br />
Those thoughts just couldn't stop ....<br />
<br />
I hope that these delusions will completely fade away one day ...<br />
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<br />kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-70279053924200162092012-02-11T21:00:00.004+08:002012-02-11T21:15:10.969+08:002012<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); "><span >又一年过去了.</span></span><div><span ><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); ">一切似乎都</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); ">改变</span><span style="background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; ">了</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); ">,但</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); ">似乎仍然</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); ">没有太大的</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); ">改变 。</span></span></div><div><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); "><span ><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); "><span ><span class="">寻找</span><span class="">改变</span><span class="">,</span><span class="">或</span><span class="">只是</span><span class="">希望</span><span class="">一切都</span><span class="">保持不变?</span></span></span></div><div><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); "><span ><span class=""><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); "><h1 id="watch-headline-title" style="background-color: rgb(235, 235, 235); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; height: 1.1363em; max-height: 1.1363em; line-height: 1.1363em; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; text-align: left; "><span style="font-weight: normal; "><span ><span id="eow-title" class="long-title" dir="ltr" title="::首播::Mayday五月天【乾杯】MV官方完整版" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: -0.5px; ">五月天</span><span style="background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">的"</span><span style="background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: -0.5px; line-height: 1.1363em; ">乾杯"</span><span style="background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; line-height: 1.1363em; ">提醒</span><span style="background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); line-height: normal; text-align: -webkit-auto; ">了</span><span style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">我</span><span class="" style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">昔日</span><span class="" style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">的</span><span class="" style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">好</span><span class="" style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">时</span><span style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: -webkit-auto; white-space: nowrap; ">光...</span></span></span></h1></span></div><div><span class="" style="text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); "><span class=""><div style="font-size: large; "><span style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: -webkit-auto; white-space: nowrap; "><br /></span></div><div style="font-size: large; "><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">如今</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; ">仍然是</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; ">好</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; ">时</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; white-space: nowrap; ">光, </span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; ">希望</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap; ">未来</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap; ">大家</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; ">也</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap; ">依旧</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: arial, sans-serif; white-space: nowrap; ">拥有</span><span class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; ">好</span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); white-space: nowrap; ">快乐</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; line-height: 1.1363em;"></span><span style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); white-space: nowrap; ">幸福</span><span style="background-color: rgb(235, 235, 235); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; text-align: left; "><span class="" style="line-height: 1.1363em; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); text-align: -webkit-auto; ">的</span></span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; white-space: nowrap; ">美好</span><span class="" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="line-height: 1.1363em;">时</span></span></span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.1363em; white-space: nowrap; ">光!!! ^^</span></div></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span ><br /></span></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-56625254130941242802011-04-08T22:04:00.004+08:002011-04-08T22:14:44.473+08:002011 post<span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:130%;" >Time passed by so fast.<br /><br />I don't even have the time of thinking to "record" my feelings anymore...<br /><br />I remember the reason or story behind each post when I read my old blogs again.<br /><br />Somehow, the feeling is just ... not there anymore.<br /><br />I guess I'm not even a master of my own memory and feelings too....<br /><br />Anyway, I'm happy that some bloggers are still writing although they have busy life.<br /><br />It's great to find out that someone is happy although we've never met.<br /><br /><br />May all beings be well and happy all the time!<br /><br />Cheers 2011</span> ^^kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-24602771680507865892010-06-17T22:54:00.002+08:002010-06-17T23:02:03.985+08:00Suffering and Good things<span style="font-size:130%;">Think about the things that make you suffer most.<br />Think how you contribute to the suffering in your mind....<br /><br />---------------------<br /><br />The next day....<br />Think of the good things that you have done...<br />Rejoice in it...<br /><br />--------------------<br />Finding suffering was easy...<br />The memory can come back so fast...<br /><br />Finding good things were quite difficult...<br />I was wondering what were the good things that I've done...<br /><br />Seems like finding faults are easier than looking at the good qualities<br />even within myself...</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I truly have to kind to myself too ...<br /><br />What a reflection!</span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-21934856348786636322010-04-23T16:40:00.003+08:002010-04-23T17:03:09.994+08:00有报应的<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">她不知道要在我生日时送些什么,我也不知道要送她什么生日礼物。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">她送了我一封手写的信,我也送了她一封手写的信。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">因为我们都知道物质都无法带给彼此任何惊喜了。。。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">只是,我还加送了一本小册子给她---我四年前结缘的女儿。</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">还特地在我要她注意到的那一页,加上了自制的菩提叶书签, 哈哈!<br /></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-------------------------------------</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">过了几个月,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">当我知道她会这样劝她的朋友时,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">“</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">but sometimes words have power to both heal and destroy"</span></span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">(摘自小册子的其中一句)</span></span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; ">我真的好惊喜,好开心,好开心哦!</span></span></span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; "><br /></span></span></span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-style: normal; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 17px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); "><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">她告诉我,她真的用心读那本小册子(还翻查字典),</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">而且还用心去体会,去实行呢!</span></span></span></div></span></span></span></span></i></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: large; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;">想不到,这么快就有“报应“了!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;">哈哈哈!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;">这可是我这几个月来最开心的其中一件事!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></span></div></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-83213038553365380242010-03-06T10:38:00.002+08:002010-03-06T10:41:07.893+08:00Know<span style="font-size:130%;">The more I know, the more I don't know.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">---------------</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">You are xx years old liao!</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Yeah, I am. Life starts at xx years old.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I've never really knew what I was doing before xx years old.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Now, I know that I don't know what's going to happen in the future.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">However, I know what I am doing now better than years ago.</span>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-33866764757378018042010-02-14T23:49:00.008+08:002010-02-15T10:21:18.198+08:00Finally<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhCAh7XtkbXTdgHdkirO9OcdvQ1x_bUbcfDvJfgL3Rs8DU4R6BcheBae2n-2glRLqt_05P-mqIJZQP7lfePir06kcHvyWcItmNk6SA6ichQK9rfTerUcUYzmo0NoMY7OmG7TNQ/s1600-h/P1090333.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438288525031718274" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhCAh7XtkbXTdgHdkirO9OcdvQ1x_bUbcfDvJfgL3Rs8DU4R6BcheBae2n-2glRLqt_05P-mqIJZQP7lfePir06kcHvyWcItmNk6SA6ichQK9rfTerUcUYzmo0NoMY7OmG7TNQ/s320/P1090333.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div><div><u><span style="color:#0000ff;"></span></u><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyG6Tx86T1rC-ZaxRtJf3IzvSYJS_pxyaeTQ-NgUDtsGCs2a7F1BTpLZa_Zo9L3x9KWCFLP-LPtecrjapZ0dzyf-JNB1EiWSvgAKoPz2I2Z67XIOou_bkz-2A8W_Nfpb4kkoZO/s1600-h/P1090329.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438287209884642610" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyG6Tx86T1rC-ZaxRtJf3IzvSYJS_pxyaeTQ-NgUDtsGCs2a7F1BTpLZa_Zo9L3x9KWCFLP-LPtecrjapZ0dzyf-JNB1EiWSvgAKoPz2I2Z67XIOou_bkz-2A8W_Nfpb4kkoZO/s320/P1090329.JPG" border="0" /></a> </div><br /><div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">I've started my savings from Monday, November 19, 2007<br /></span><a name="3190356417693943439"></a><span style="font-size:130%;">The story goes like this </span><a href="http://kaiteh.blogspot.com/2007/11/blog-post_19.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">一天三角钱</span></a></div><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Today, I've finally filled up the boxes with coins of total about RM156 each!</span></p><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Yeah! Woo Hoo!</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">I didn't actually wait to fill the boxes full with coins to give to charity organization.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Sometimes, when there was news on disaster and donation was needed,</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">I'll donate whatever amount that was in one of the boxes.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;"></span> </div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">I kept one of the box untounch because I wanted to know how much money I can save up in a box.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">From 2007 till now, sometimes, I'm concious/mindful that I wanted to keep those small change for the purpose of giving. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">(Reading the thoughts of what I had in the past in the previous blog reminds me that I've forgotten some of the details!)</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Sometimes, it just becoming a habit or just to achieve the target (to fill up the box).</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">So how many right thoughts/mindful deeds have I had?</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">I don't know...but I knew I did my best!</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;"></span> </div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">For this box, I've plan to buy or order booklet/bookmark with some sayings</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">and give to my students and friends!</span></div><br /><div>It is because the gift of Dhamma (teaching of Buddha) excels all gifts!</div><div>Hopefully that it'll be useful to them!</div></div></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-19880048460043472412010-01-09T09:23:00.003+08:002010-01-09T10:04:47.609+08:00又是新的一年<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">在2009年最后一天,大家都在发愿,</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">也期许2010年会更好,更快乐。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">然而,2010年的头九天过去了,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">开始付出了吗?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">正在实现计划的道路上了吗?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">有变得更好,变得更快乐吗?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">----------------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">答:哈哈。。。当然还没有 啦!!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">只不过就延续着去年的计划啦,行动啦。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">去年发什么愿都忘了呢。。。嘻嘻!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">人之常情嘛。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">没变坏,就是好啦。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">至于快乐嘛。。。一时一时咯。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但前天就庆幸自己有耐心的等下去,要不然就真的走宝了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">下课后,还有半小时才会到讲座会的时间。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">想想要不然回家休息,做功课好了。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">挣扎着。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">既然早就有这意念要出席这场讲座会,就出席吧!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">--------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">又是一场令我察觉不到时间存在的讲座!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">办什么活动都好,参与什么活动都好,都应持着:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">信愿,慈悲,智慧。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">每次参与/办活动/事情,我有时候会忘了原来的目的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">受了他人的影响,就变得不快乐了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">忘了我最根本的用意不是和别人比较。。。不是为了自己的面子,成就。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">而是把欢乐带给他人,助他人成长。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">因为怕被比较下去,要达到他人的要求,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">对他人,对自己也忘了包容,宽容,赞许。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">过程,成果都重要。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但忘了原本是持着要学习,要进步的心态去办事。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">结果,得不到想要的成果,就觉得很失望,就想放弃了。。。逃避</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">--------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">听完了以后,我重新检讨我的</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">信愿,慈悲,智慧。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我要重新开始检讨我自己的定位,目标。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我要大家一起都欢乐。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我要从中学习我的缺点,要改进,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">再次出发!!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">之前的忧虑,不开心,压力。。。都逐一慢慢的放下了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-4882988209808356572009-12-29T18:31:00.003+08:002009-12-29T19:02:49.815+08:00静坐三天<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">去了三天的静坐。。。</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">早上四点多起身(已经是没自律了,因为四点就开始要静坐了)。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">眼皮,精神都是超累的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">怎么可以获得平静。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">“静坐=静睡”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">中午吃饱饭后,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">也是超爱睡的!!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">怎么可能可以专心静坐啊。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但既然来了,就下定决心,告诉自己:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我要打起精神,认真的静坐。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">中午过后,我休息了一会儿,洗了脸,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我认真的打起精神走着,站着,坐着。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">天啊!我开始意识到我可没这么精神过!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我很清楚知道我自己在做什么。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">那种精神无比,清晰无比的心情简直无法用言语来形容。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">突然间,我想起了</span></div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Though he should live a hundred years,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">immoral and uncontrolled;</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">yet better, indeed, is it to live a single day,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">virtuous and meditative.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">虽然我可不是一整天都保持清醒,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但这短短的半小时吧,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">真的很清醒!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我知道我在做什么。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我很开心可以察觉到这发现。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">过了一下子,我也意识到这开心也是短暂的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">因为feeling arises,feeling cease.</span></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">除了这个发现以外,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我还意识到我自己没有注意自己的思想的时候,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">什么东西都可以乱想。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">只因平时没好好观察自己的“想”,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">所以无法察觉到。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">只因平时没好好的认真发愿要做某件事,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">所以下场都是要自我安慰。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">新的一年,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">要认真的发好愿。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">不只要发愿,而且要认真的实现它!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-78309692753644933742009-12-22T18:52:00.003+08:002009-12-22T19:02:23.045+08:00认真<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">真正的认真对待所发生的事。。。</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我好像没这么认真过也。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">每次都是得过且过。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">每次想下定决心认真对待的时候,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">总有事情发生,总可以找借口不认真。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">每次都是虎头蛇尾的。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">终于,在我神经质的reflection里,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我第一次承认我自己做事从来都不曾认真过。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">真是罪过,罪过。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">以后,我不想做太多的事。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我只要认真的完成一件事,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我就可以面对自己了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-32460542293016551012009-11-29T23:07:00.003+08:002009-11-29T23:32:38.942+08:00You are not in my shoes<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">简单的一句“You are not in my shoes”,</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">就可以喝酒伤身吗?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">然后令让真正关心你的人更难过吗?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">穿什么鞋,都是自己选择的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">什么鞋有什么用途,穿了会怎样,老早就知道了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">一,穿了可能不合适自己的鞋,却要坚持穿下去,希望穿到合适为止。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但几时才会合适,不知道。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">等待的当儿,是痛苦的。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">二,明知不合适的鞋,还是要试着穿,结果受伤了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">包上了贴布,赤裸着脚,在踩着伤口的当儿,告诉你:我受伤了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">你是不会明白的。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">三,穿上了合适的鞋,没有不舒适,也没觉得有什么特别的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">穿坏了以后,才觉得合适的鞋原来是那么难找的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">四,穿上了合适又舒服的鞋,真的是超开心的!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">希望一辈子都可以穿着它。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">无奈的是,无论怎么好好的照顾鞋子,总有一天是会坏的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">那一天,也同样告诉你:我受伤了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">你是不会明白的。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">有没有一双真的永远会让人穿得开心的鞋子存在呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">其实老早就知道答案了。</span></div><div><br /></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-71181070300202579962009-11-07T16:05:00.005+08:002009-11-07T16:26:46.862+08:00送礼物的timing<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFCmOx_r2OUNdNCv3dStS3gbJvCGuVoLHFQJyhqC5CSf6gfKuj-ohtN2uIuMbRWhVFb8NK-VcM-fjcAaT_eYcKX_hgeFRKuYNK6wHdvT3tnWFl8Q8s9lWmAGYZKRDKbpnAL-5L/s1600-h/P1080256.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 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id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5401270635668429890" /></a><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">葫芦形状的菩提叶,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我可是第一次捡到的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">虽然不至于说很罕有,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但是要找到很平均和对等的葫芦形却不容易。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">细心耐心的浸泡了一个月,心想:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">到底该留给自己做纪念呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">还是把它送给知心朋友或有需要的人呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">还是把它送出去吧!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">把它晒干了,就先夹在书里。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">要用到时在把它拿出来就perfect了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-------------------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">好也,终于可以把这葫芦形菩提叶送出去了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">赶紧找它。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">找来找去,怎么都不见了啊!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">时间紧逼,又不能再等了,只好选其他叶子书签送出去了。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">虽然有点遗憾,但也算是上了一课:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; white-space: pre; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">送礼要及时</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">不必等到靠近什么特别日子才送礼物的!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-------------------------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">再慢慢找那片葫芦形菩提叶吧。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">给我找到的话,我一定马上把它送出去的!</span></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-50301633790892861232009-10-28T18:41:00.005+08:002009-10-28T19:18:39.827+08:00妈妈不养宠物的原因。。。<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">前几天,在安静的半夜里,</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">外婆家的电箱突然着火。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">多亏nemo, 一只阿姨刚养了一年的小狗不停的吠,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">这才叫醒了阿姨!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">幸运的,事后,大家都安然无恙。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">之前,我们都反对阿姨养小狗,因为她的孩子常常感冒。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我们都担心会影响家人的健康。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">还好阿姨坚持养了这只小狗,要不然,外婆家不知会变成什么样子了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-----------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">妈妈终于说养宠物其实是很不错的,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">可以在危险时警惕和保护主人们。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但是妈妈还是坚持不要养宠物。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">妈妈说:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">“宠物的寿命不长,过了几年就会离主人而去了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">到时一定很舍不得,会很伤心的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">还是不要养的好。。。”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-----------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">从这一番话,我知道妈妈不舍的是</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">‘多年的情感’。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">妈妈也知道‘有始有终’这四个字</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">是容易拿得起,并不容易放得下的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">也不是那么容易面对‘终’的时候的。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">----------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">到了今天,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我却有了另一番见解。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">要“有”,就一定会面对“无”的痛苦。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">没“有”,就不会面对“无”的痛苦了。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">当然,说是容易,做是难啦!!!</span></div><div><br /></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-79122836646864077272009-10-09T18:13:00.002+08:002009-10-09T18:24:47.325+08:00感恩今天。。。(5)<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">虽然今天的工作还是做不完。。。</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">但可以以闲着闲着的心情来做,感觉还真不赖呢!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">肚子饿了,就去买零食吃!嗬嗬~!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">不必像之前忙到只有空吃正餐,完全没心情去理会下午茶!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">感恩今天能够再度体会这种闲着闲着的心情,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">虽然接下来又会再向横发展了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">愿大家下个星期工作愉快!!!</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-33088664857557863722009-09-19T08:23:00.004+08:002009-09-19T09:16:37.688+08:00今年的生日<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">我对生日已经提不起什么期待,或想怎么庆祝了。</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">或许都知道会有些什么节目了吧!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">而且也不想劳烦朋友们。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">今年也不例外,也就是吃吃喝喝,sms祝福。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">----------------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">但是,我还是在想,我 “儿女们”不知会不会再sms我呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">今年已是<a href="http://kaiteh.blogspot.com/2006/09/blog-post.html">第四年了</a>,他们还会不会记得我啊?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">踏入12 点钟,女儿SMS来了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">好温馨哦!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">当天下班回来,还看到了一封信,而且是手写的哦!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">真是开心极了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">我真不知道前世作了什么好事,才配有这么一个好有缘的好女儿!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">哈哈!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">好开心,也好安慰哦!!!!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">谢谢你啊!我可爱的女儿!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">-------------------</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">我自从去年开始,生日晚上的当天,都会去念经祈福!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">不是想为自己作福。只是想。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">祝愿所有现在,和以前曾经关怀过我的人,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">身心愉快!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">感恩大家!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">MAY ALL BE WELL AND HAPPY!</span></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30737156.post-88518605034760913172009-08-25T18:06:00.003+08:002009-08-25T18:26:07.202+08:00感恩今天。。。(4)<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">走着,走着,终于到了。</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">小瓜问:“你还好吗?看起来好像有问题哦!”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">奇怪,我有什么问题啊?难道脸色又苍白了吗?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我问:“你是指我脸色苍白呢?还是指我看起来有心事啊?”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">小瓜答:“你看起来有心事,跟我们分享你的心事,好吗?”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">天啊!原来我的忧虑(因为要主办活动)竟然写在脸上了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">小瓜还说:“there's no problem in this world that could not be solved. that's the fact of life! no worry!"</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">谢谢你们啊!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">真想不到平时是我鼓励他人,今天竟轮到小瓜们来鼓励我了!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我的忧虑还是有的,但多了一份欣慰,安慰!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">离开之前,我问小瓜:“我现在看起来怎么样?“</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">小瓜答:“你看起来开心多了!要不要再跟我们分享你的心事啊?”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我笑着答:“谢谢你们!我现在好多了!”</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">感恩有你们!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">就算有忧虑,我也还是会尽力开心的继续下去的!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">感恩有生之年可以遇到你们!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">我班的小瓜们可都是友族哦!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">多么希望大家都有机会看到,以及拥有这份感情!</span></div>kaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14952395183790583739noreply@blogger.com1