苦，因无法作主。

"心若迷时会很苦，苦在自己无法作主"
证严法师

我就是这么样的一个人。
很多时候，我都不敢自己作决定。
总喜欢问问别人的意见，再来就是求神问卦咯!
但每当我举棋不定时，我只要想起，或是看到这句话，我就会再次鼓起勇气，谨慎思考，然后作出决定，逼自己负责任!
因为，这句话的前一句是这样的:

"培养面对现实的勇气和毅力，以欢喜心接受一切境界，不要动辄求神问卦"
证严法师
摘自"勇敢面对现实"源于[静思语1]

I can't translate the great sayings in the book "静思语1" by veteran "Zheng Yan" (证严法师) accurately and precisely and moreover, my English vocabulary is very limited.

But to me, it sounds like this "when our heart is lost, we would feel very hard (or bitter). It is hard (or bitter) because I can't decide by myself."

I'm this type of person.

For most of the time, I dare not decide by myself.

I've always liked to ask others' opinion. And for more, I'll go for fortune telling.

Everytime when I'm "undecisive", I only need to think of or see this phrase, I'll again have the courage to think carefully, and then made decision as well as to force myself to be responsible for it!

It is because the phrase before this phrase (by veteran 证严法师) sounds like this "inculcate the courage and endurance to face reality, use a happy heart to accept all the occurence, don't just simply go for fortune telling."